Your Weekend Playlist to Fit Your Mood

Because ain’t nothing like a dance party, amiright?

~5-8 mins read

THE WEEKEND. IS. FINALLY. HERE! Way to go #smartyfemme, you survived another week of work / housework / chores and now you get to enjoy the weekend!

You’re probably thinking about the adventures you’ll have this weekend, aka traveling from your bed to your couch to your kitchen and back to your bed. I’m thinking of channeling my inner chef this weekend to see what I can cook up for Easter lunch. Chef Tiffanié, in the house!

Below are the songs on my playlist designated to fit whatever M O O D you’re in. Enjoy!

HEAVEN by EMILEE

Mood: Good morning, sleepyhead. You’re casually journaling in your pjs, overlooking a window. Likely to be daydreaming your thoughts, hopes, dreams, plans, goals, etc.

BURNING BRIDGES by ELLA VOS

Mood: I’m ready to start being productive! I’m such in a good mood! I’m going to make pancakes for breakfast! No one can stop me! I’m reading The Smarty Femme now!!

EXPRESSING WHAT MATTERS by DISCLOSURE

Mood: Chillin’ on a pool chair, cucumbers over my eyes, and a flower tucked behind my ear. Taking a sip of coconut water straight from a fresh coconut.

TOOTSIE SLIDE by DRAKE

Mood: Let’s make a TikTok so you can show your dance skills to the world!

2 hours later…

Wow, this is harder than it looks.

I LOVE MY FRIENDS by STEVE AOKI

Mood: Checking your phone 836492457 times to see if your friends have responded from the texts you sent this morning. Finally, someone replied back. I LOVE MY FRIENDS.

WORTH SAVING by JESSIE REYEZ

Mood: In the shower, door closed. Steam everywhere. Time to pour your heart out by singing this ballad, complete with coordinating hand and body motions. This is your moment to shine, you smarty femme.

JUICE by LIZZO

Mood: In a Zoom call virtual happy hour, where your friends challenge each other to a dance-off. Werk it!

RELACIÓN by SECH

Mood: Post dinner, SUPER full. You don’t really understand what this song is saying but this is probably what my dog thinks of me when you’re trying to talk to him. Whatever, you still like it!

FLAMING HOT CHEETOS by CLAIRO

Mood: How did it get to 1 AM already? Wiping the tears off your face because somehow you have all these feels. Some of the hot Cheetos crumbs you were eating accidentally rubbed off on your face. Okay, it’s time to call it a night.


Have a terrific weekend!

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How to Be Productive When You’re Feeling Super Lazy

Because Netflix and chill can’t happen 24/7 😦

~ 3-5 mins read

Maybe today is that day. A day when you wake up feeling that you don’t want to do anything. It was only yesterday you told yourself that you are going to cross out five things off your to-do list tomorrow. Now, those thoughts have come to a screeching halt.

It’s totally OK to have a relaxing day and not do anything productive. But, let’s say you really need to get out of bed and tackle some tasks. You might feel lazy now, but it could be because you haven’t turned on your productive mindset and it needs a little help.

TSF TIP:

Some days, we need to think productive in order to be productive.

Here are some tips to help you get started:

  1. Change out of your pajamas and into something that’ll get you in a productive mindset. It can still be soft and 100% cotton, but change into something with the goal of making yourself feel ready to kick-off the day.
  2. Do a quick, 10-minute workout to get your body energized for the day. This doesn’t have to be a full-on HIIT workout with 8 lb weights, unless you want it to be. You could do 10 push-ups, 10 jumping jacks, some stretches, and a couple of deep inhales and exhales. That’s totally fine.
  3. Given the stay-at-home/quarantining circumstances, you’re not seeing anyone with the exception of your daily “coworkers,” aka your pet and significant other (if any; if not, ignore) and the occasional blurry video call from your boss. But, it can possibly help get you in a good mood if you take care of how you look. Comb that hair, brush your teeth, and use that scented body lotion (this is my favorite). Whatever it takes.
  4. Eat something substantial. Three bites of your candy bar from last night doesn’t count. Here are some delicious eats if you want to look at food pictures and drool over them. You can also have one of three options: 1) Oatmeal with cinnamon and fruit, 2) Toast with peanut butter and chia seeds, or 3) Banana and yogurt. Or, you can pick whatever you want to eat. Just make it good and insta-worthy, duh.
  5. Cool, you read through this entire post. Leave the comment: “I got this” and give yourself a pat on the back.

Hope these tips can help jump-start your day. Now, go own it, you smarty femme!

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Hack Your To-Do List and Make It Work for You

Because, not all to-do lists are alike

~5 – 7 mins read

I’ve had my fair share of to-do lists that seemed daunting to complete. Often times, I found myself tempted to give up since I thought, “There’s no way I’ll be able to complete the list, so why even bother doing it?” 

You might have found yourself in a similar situation, and it’s certainly no fun. To-do lists are supposed to help you, so you can actually get things done (duh!). It is so much easier when you know exactly what you need to do and how important the task is to complete today.

Luckily for you, I’ve tried many to-do lists (some of which were created with colorful gel pens) and discovered a list format that works best for me. I’m a big fan of this list format since I feel more motivated to tackle my to-dos. Also, it makes me feel less anxious and overwhelmed knowing what I need to complete next. Hopefully it does the same for you!

Let’s begin!

Step 1

Make three sections, labeling them: 

DO TODAY

TODAY IF POSSIBLE

IF TIME PERMITS

Step 2

It’s time to fill-in these sections with your to-dos. Here is how I classify them:

DO TODAY: This section is for urgent to-dos that you utterly, absolutely, 110%, need to complete today. Today, I needed to do my laundry, make a doc appointment, call my friend Kelsey, go to Trader Joe’s, and drink enough water. All very adult-ish things.

TODAY IF POSSIBLE: This section is for to-dos that can be finished today, although you still have the next couple of days to complete them. In my list, I wrote: clean my bedroom and pack for my trip to Yosemite. I don’t need to do them today. I can, in fact, do them tomorrow. There’s still some wiggle room here.

IF TIME PERMITS: This section is for tasks that are further out in the future, but if you are able to zip through the past two sections, then by all means start tackling this section as well. After all, we’re all here to become more productive.

I have some tasks such as organize my pantry and find a birthday present for my friend Michelle. If I don’t have time today, I can complete these tasks next week. But, let’s see how the day goes and if I’m able to complete my other tasks, then I’ll get these to-dos squared away.

Step 3

You’re ready to start tackling your to-dos. By using the format, you can clearly see what tasks you need to get done. I use this list format both at work and at home, and I find myself getting a LOT more to-dos done. Hooray for productivity!

You can use the list again for the next couple of days, depending on how many tasks you have on it. So, you don’t need to keep re-creating these lists unless you absolutely need to, saving you time to focus on actually doing your tasks.

Below is what I actually did today. I clearly need to drink more water.

Enjoy tackling your to-dos, you smarty femme!